The Great Dildo Debate

I really want a new dildo. I have been lusting after a new one for a while and I find myself torn between a few models. I think I want one of each from a few different categories but I will come to that later. The dildo I currently own leaves a lot to be desired. It is the first one I ever bought and at the time I was horny as all hell. I had recently broken up with my boyfriend who left much to be desired in every possible way and I made a purchase with my eyes and not my head. I also did not know anything about body safe materials. I thought hey if they are made and sold to be placed in my body then it must be good for me. OHH how wrong I was. Anywho, that leads me to my current dilemma.

I am looking for a sleek double ended, multi purpose, g-spot stimulating dildo I can use to massage my g-spot and I think I found that in the ELLA by Lelo. It is silicone so with proper care should last forever. Come in a cool black finish with bag and does not look like a giant cock. I know sometime in the near future I will get on of those.

Next, I am looking for a realistic dildo that is 100% medical grade quality silicone, is flexible, hypoallergenic, warms to the body, is not too wide, can be thrusted will last forever with proper care. For that I think I have found what I am looking for in Throb by Tantus. But I must say I also want the Vicky Venus red white marbled by Fun Factory. Maybe I can get both! Oh yes and the Slim Jim by happy Valley.

Now, I also want something with balls at the base has an opening that snugly fits an included wireless-micro vibe. SO far I have not seen one item that has all of those things but I have seen a couple that have caught my eye.
Goddess by Tantus

Echo by Tantus
Hottie by Happy Valley
Buzz 1 by Tantus

Notice, so many wonderful options and so little money to spend on them. Also none of these have a pair of nice balls to hold onto. It seems like if I want a 100% medical grade quality silicone dildo I will have to shell out around $100 and I soooo do not want to do that. All of the really nice looking realistic dildos come in funky flesh tones made of cyberskin and kinda creep me out. So I guess I will continue to search.

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Better Buzz Team VIP Reviewer

Yea! I am so excited. A couple of weeks ago I was approved as a Better Sex Buzz Team VIP Reviewer. Ever since I have been super busy trying out new toys and writing reviews. And let me be clear I am so not complaining. I have had a great time this summer exploring my sexuality in new ways I never imagined I would and it looks like my fall is going to be even better.

I have been trying to figure out how ever since I was approve how to express my gratitude and damn it is still do not know how. So I am writing this post in an attempt to get my feelings out. Since becoming a review for Bettersex.com my toy collection has more than doubled and in this tight economy God knows it is more than a blessing. I have needed the stress release while on the new job hunt and have not really be able to afford new toys and a celibate girl needs variety!!

The main reason I am so glad to be apart of their online community is because sex education in my home left much to be desired. Than goodness I had friends who knew everything and wanted to keep me informed and safe so I could make wise decisions. Being apart of a community that is sex positive and friendly has really been a God send and has helped me overcome so many of my personal issues in such a short amount of time. So what I am trying to say is Thanks in every possible way and I hope to pay it forward.

Oh Yes and did I mention I found a new Job, YEA!!

Lola California Exotic Novelties

Hip Hip Hurray!! It appears I have been approved as a"Sexpert" on intimate toys by California Exotic Novelties. So here's the deal, last month I browsing around the Internet and I came across California Exotic Novelties blog. I noticed that they were looking for 100 men and women to write reviews for them of products many which are not yet on the market. Of course I had to jump on that opportunity, so I signed up on their website hoping but not really expecting to be approved. I mean they are only looking for 100 people how likely was it that I would be selected but last week a brown box arrived at my home I was not expecting. So I ran upstairs ripped it open and inside I found a invoice from California Exotic Novelties and my brand new Lola. Yea!
Now that you know how I came by my new vibrator let's get to the fun stuff. Lola is a powerfully beautiful ridged seamless sleek smooth hot pink traditional style vibrator. It is capable of multiple speeds and the power is controlled by a twisting cap tip. Lola is made of ABS plastic which is non-porous and phthalate-free, Yea! Lola also boosts a really nicely ridged texture. The ridges, firm texture and slim build of this toy make it a great toy for thrusting. Lola is also waterproof which makes cleanup an easy thing to do as it can be taken into the shower not only for a wash but also for all kinds of fun. I would recommend using antibacterial soap and hot water or wiping down with isopropyl alcohol. It has a user friendly length of 5.75" and a width of 1.25"' This toy is not for size queens but the added texture and firmness of the toy should please most users. Based on it's features I would recommend this toy to new and advance users. I was really so shocked by it's power I was not expecting it. I am usually not a fan of traditional vibes they just are not powerful enough for me and the vibrations tend to be too dispersed. I sooo did not have that problem with this vibe.
So after I washed Lola and added the two required AA batteries I was ready to give a a try. I am happy to say she did not disappoint! She is easy to hold in my hand. It feels like I am holding a traditional vibrator with dual bullets at it's tips because of the way it expands at it's ends. Because of the narrow rounded tips this toy was great for clitoral stimulation and I came in about 3 mintes. Then I moved on to try to stimulate my g-spot. I was able to do so relatively easily because of the way the vibe expands but to really stimulate it I had some fun twisting and got the most of the ridges and since Lola is so firm I pushed down on the end so it was touching the mattress and and vibrating tip was right up against my g-spot and let me tell you. It got the job done. Lola has earned her spot close to my bed.
All in all Lola is a great traditional vibe with a unique shape and powerful design. She is easy to clean and can be used for shower time fun. The only draw back was she was very loud even when she was inserted. Sometimes it almost seemed like the batteries were rattling around inside the unit. If you do not live alone there is no way people won't hear the motor. So blast that music and have a good time with your Hot Pink Lola from California Exotic Novelties!

Rechargeable Jack Rabbit

He was Vigorous oh So Vigorous. After using this toy I kept thinking about the mask of Zorro when Catherine Zeta Jones and Antonio duel and she tells her papa he was "Vigorous very very vigorous!" Cause that is what this bad boy is. He is not for the weak of heart or for those of you who want subtle vibrations as he does not know what subtle means.

But if you want possibly the best most intense orgasm of your life then I suggest you get this sucker. Check out all of the sorted details by clicking on the title.

Smartballs - Teneo Duo

What can a girl say about her favorite pair of balls. Hmm...I love Fun Factory. I love silicone Balls I love an easy insert hollow. I love a silicone retrieval cord. I love waterproof and dishwasher safe. I love an included lube sample. Seriously using this with Layaspot was amazing.

It is a must have for any female so click on my title and enjoy the full review.

Petite couture enchanted G-spot vibrator by California Exotic Novelties

I am so pleased with California Exotic Novelties' Petite Couture Collection Enchanted vibrator. When I first saw it online I fell in love and I hoped once it arrived it would not disappoint. I am happy to say there has been no let down. There are so many things that appealed to me when I first saw this vibe. I have been looking for a vibrator made of silicone so it could be completely sterilized and was water proof so cleanup would not be a hassle. A body safe vibe that was of course non-porous, phthalates free, hypo-allergenic, and latex free. A vibe that did not just vibrate but also escalates and pulsates. I wanted something with a g-spot tip and ridged texture. Something slim for nights when I wanted to have a little more freedom to quickly thrust and with this vibe's dimension insertable length 4 3/4", circumference 4", and diameter of 1 1/4" I was hopeful Enchanted could get the job done.


Once my petite Lavender vibe arrived I discovered that it was soft, smooth and sleek to the touch. It arrived just as it appears on the box and online photos. The power and function buttons are separate, convenient and light up. I hate using one button, running through and looking for the setting I want and when I get to the end it turns off, then I have to turn it back on. None of that here! One for on/off and one for vibrations and pulsing.

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The battery compartment is accessed by twisting a pinched cap that holds 2AA. I used two rechargeable Duracell batteries and there was no lack of power. The vibrations move throughout the unit in such a way I can not tell for sure where the bullet is. From squeezing the unit I would guess it is near the base about midway, as the tip is squishy but that is not to say you can't feel the power in the curved tip because you can. And did I mention it was odor free and almost silent, YEA!


So the fun part application! Because of the ridges, size and flexibility it worked well as a petite dildo. The only drawback there was it's insertable length. It is 7" long but only4 3/4" are insertable. Every time I got into a good groove I would come up against the control panel...so sad so I would turn on the vibe setting run it along my clit and have that climax. If Enchanted was about one more insertable inch I would never leave home without it. As it is I have given it a new home near my pillow. The best part about using this as a dildo is it does not accidentally come on while I'm banging away which is one of my major pet peeves. Now, I was really tempted to try this toy anally the little bubble head, ridges, smooth soft texture, waterproof nature and ability to be sterilized really called to my ass but because it has no flared based I had to enjoy just running it around its entrance.

I did not use any lube with mine but of course no silicone based lube, water based only. I did not have any issues with lint sticking just hair. I made a drawstring bag to store mine in. Be sure you do not store it with other silicone toys, it did come wrapped in a cloth you might want to keep it to store yours in.

All in all Enchanted is a must have for a new or an advanced user. It is not too small for most and plenty big for others I think it has enough features to please many. Aside from it's missing inch I would not change a thing and is just so attractive and cute. I really like holding it in my hand and looking at it . It is just so touchable.

Petite couture enchanted G-spot vibrator by California Exotic Material: Silicone Safety: $45.99 Buy from EdenFantasys
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Evolved Wonder

Do not be fooled by Mr. Wonderful's appearance. He is more powerful and has more tricks than his simple design lets on. I think I found my A-spot while using this g-spot vibe, which up until now I was not sure existed. The curved tip and ridges along is shaft and flexible design make for one Super Yummy Ride ...just click title to read full review!

Layaspot by Fun Factory

A must have for any toy box. Layaspot by Fun Factory is a quality clitoral stimulator and continues my love affair with Fun Factory. Layaspot is my first toy made from Elastomed and I'm loving it's feel and texture. It's packaging was superior and arrived with a silicone lube sample called Body Fluid.

I really love this brand and I really love this vibe. Check out my full review by clicking the title.

Sublime Couture Massager by California Exotic Novelties

A Beautiful, Elegant, Classy, Powerful, Ridged, Waterproof, Vibrating, Pulsating addition to any bedroom. Sublime is made from premium, medical-grade silicone and is flexible perfection check out my entire review by clicking title.

Petite Pink Ribbon by Natural Contours

This Petite Pink Ribbon vibe is a great labia, ball perineum massager. I loved its texture, color and packaging. Click on the title to read full review.

System Jo Personal Lube

My first silicone lube was it all everyone claimed it would be. Well, I loved it. For full details check out my review by clicking the title.

The climax® silicone EZ Bend Spiral Shaft by TOPCO

The Climax Silicone EZ Bend Spiral Shaft delivers powerful vibrations from its tip for stimulation right where you want it. The flexible shaft won’t stay bent once you let go. The deep ridges and velvety finish are pleasing. The high quality odor free material, sophisticated packaging, waterproof design, satin storage case and almost silent motor make this an ideal gift. I guess what I am saying is I loved it

Li’l gum drops Slick Butt plug by Doc Johnson

Stop wondering and just jump on it. If you are curious about anal sex either you want to try it or you want to give it to someone then my Li’l Gum Drops Slick Butt Plug by Doc Johnson is the way to go . It is the perfect baby step to get things started. I have cum to think of it as my ass pacifier. It is so cute and so small and so yummy it is just beyond adorable. Even knowing the measurements in advance I still had no idea what to expect until I had it resting in my hand. But before I get carried away lets cover the basics.

This cutie is made of PVC, which happens to be a light, water resistant plastic which is safe to use with water and silicone based lubes. It arrived in highly attractive packaging that did not scream sex toy even though it's plastic box was transparent. The font was a swirly blue and pink. I took my Li’l Gum Drop out gave it a sniff and it does carry a potent new toy scent but only when it is close to your nose. At first glance it looks and feels like it should attract all forms of lint, dust, hair and string but I am so so happy to say that it does not. It is incredibly flexible yet sturdy and gained huge bonus points when placed upright on a flat surface b/c it did not fall over. Jackpot! I hate, Hate it when toys are all wet and sticky you put them to down to readjust and they fall over to get covered in lint and hair and then I must stop what I am doing to clean the toy. Buzz Kill. My Li’l Gum Drop is smooth to the touch and sticky free. All which aid in it's ease to clean. I washed mine with warm water and antibacterial soap before play and toy cleaner afterwards.

This plug is very small I CAN NOT SAY THAT ENOUGH. When imagining the insertable length grab your standard small size nail clippers and ask yourself if that would get you off cause that is all your gonna get to put up your bum with this sweetie. It boasts a whopping length of 2 3/4", insertable length of 2 1/2", circumference 2 1/2", diameter 3/4", and a neck diameter of 3/8". Please understand that this is an itty bitty teeny tiny piece of butt candy. This plug is not too hard and not too soft making it comfortable to wear for long periods of wear time. It also does not pop out when tighten down.

Now, with all of this being said if you like a pinkie in your ass or you think you might give this a try. If you want to add a Li'l something to your oral sex game. If you wanna slide this into your man's ass while you lick his balls. I think this is a great plug for that if he is a little afraid and very new to anal play. The size is non threatening while gives plenty of pleasure. I believe this item comes in blue as well if the pink color is a turn off. If you like the tip of a tongue in your ass or that tongue plunging in and out then give this a try. I found with a great silicone lube, I used one by Jo you really can simulate that experience. The base had plenty of flare and was about as long as the insertable length of the plug. It was also about a 1/2" wide which felt really great when the lube slides down it and it was, well for lack of a better phrase in my crack.

Down side, this is much too small for advanced users. It was a horribly wonderful tease and I was torn between ripping it out and throwing it away while I put the dildo I had in my pussy in my ass. Something I really was not prepared for. So if you like a tease then this is the way to go.

All in all how do I feel? Some people call weed the gateway drug I call my Li’l Gum Drop the gateway plug on the road to full on anal sex.

$0.00Li'l gum drops Slick Butt plug by Doc Johnson Material: PVC Safety: Buy from EdenFantasys

The Oui™ Personal Pleasure Massager by California Exotic Novelties

Oui by California Exotic Novelties is petite, discreet, inexpensive, non threatening, not to mention a frustratingly good time. If you want a cute toy to to add a little stimulation to your couple play then look no further than this. I adore packaging and this black box with grey swirls leaves nothing to be desired.